Mike,
Just saw your post. I am new at LEC.
Sorry about your loss. You are OK, that is all that matter.
That churn in the stomach is still with me from my Miata crash and I was driving carefully that morning, rush hour, everybody was travelling no more than 40 mph. And that was enough to total the car from front end damage, airbag and all.
Good that I was by myself - 1 airbag. Right after that I planned to get a car with 2 airbags atleast, somehow ended up buying Doug's Stripey. Can't resist the beauty of the design after all these years.
I read Miata enthusiast's service manual somewhere. The "A" pillar is for so that you flip the car up side down and nicey place it on the ground and it will stay there somewhat
Very shock hearing your story. We all know our car well. It's the other drivers plus something else that we don't know. I slipped on the highway pretty badly once cause the gasoline truck leaked the oil all over freeway and that was right after raining, 9 PM. I actually saw 5 cars lining up in the accident 3/4 of a mile in front of me and still I managed to be the 6th car keep them company there.
Wish you and family well, etc.