For conventional fasteners look at section T15 . For bolts you will normally get either Grade 5.6 or 8.8. It will be marked on the head. I never use 5.6! (not on my car anyway)
High tensile is Grade 12.9, typically used for Socket cap screws. If in any doubt about what to use then this is what you should go for.
For Stainless look at section T28
Normally you will get these in A2(304)-70 or A4(316)-70 and this should be marked on the head. If it has no marking then you must assume it is either A2-50 or A4-50.
You will see that Stainless are significantly weaker than High tensile
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