http://www.lislecorp.com/tool_detail.cfm?detail=1365
Once your car is a Lotus Classic (as Lotus says in the States to keep us away from the dealer-network) it needs special attention, much like your girlfriend.
If you are lucky enough to remove your O2 sensor without stripping the threads (From my own experience this is an excercise in patience. Keep applying a WD40 type product every day, and use no more than a 1/4" breaker-bar... as your 1/2" breaker-bar will remove the sensor AND all the metal which you used to call threads!) then you will need a product like this to clean & 'purify' the threads before they completely rust away into oblivion. This is also crucial if you wish to have an accurate reading when using a torque-wrench to install your new sensor.
In a pinch you can use an 18mm spark plug as they have the same thread-pitch (Elans use 14mm plugs unfortunately, but plugs are cheap & easy to find), however plugs are usually designed to screw into aluminium heads and not rusty cast-iron, so they may not be up to the task.
Anyhow, these can be found at O'Reilly Auto Parts but are a non-stock item, meaning they'll be delivered the next morning at no additional charge if you just call-in. Or, To locate a source for Lisle products in the US and Canada contact us at 712-542-5101. They will ask for personal information, like your ZIP code.


, and have visited upon me the joy of just a few minutes work with a 22mm spanner to remove a sensor that I know to be at least 8 years old. 
, fitted it today
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