Yes, these are std 1/2 width relays - scrap yards over here are full of them
I think they are called 'ISO Micro relay - plug in'
Available in SPST (4pin) & SPDT (5 pin)
Either will fit, although the socket is only wired for the 4 pin.
I need to check the wiring diagram but I don't think you can use this to power the seat heaters as, IIRC, it switches to earth, therefore you would be putting the seat heaters in series with the fan motor. I'm sure Goeff will be along soon to confirm or flame me
The seat heat switches are indeed Carlton - possibly early Senator as well - but please note they are single position only. Most kits these days require a 2 position switch.
Not so easy to find these days tho' and if you do find them they may need new illumination bulbs.