by VagueShot » Sun 20.12.2009, 19:53
Just a quick note to say I didn't mind the original post. After all the Lotus was bought by my late wife and now it is a car with lots of happy memories. The Lotus has already charmed another widow, who incidentally HJ2 has met!
The only thing I would say, is that being a widow or widower (I prefer the female form form in most instances) is not easy and you tend to get left out or behind, hence the title of my blog. This Christmas, if the weather closes in again, I might have to spend it alone. Not good! Especially, as the one toy that is guaranteed to make me happy, K9 WFF, couldn't get through the snow to the open road. So if there is a widow or widower in your street, make sure that they are having a good holiday. I correspond with one, who hasn't any family, on the Internet. She has voluteered to work long shifts in her hospital over Christmas, so others can be with their families. She enjoys it, but I suspect she would prefer to be tucking into her dinner with a nice man!